{"id":8206,"date":"2021-12-19T22:54:01","date_gmt":"2021-12-20T03:54:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sixburnersue.com\/cooking-fresh-eating-green\/?p=8206"},"modified":"2021-12-19T22:55:04","modified_gmt":"2021-12-20T03:55:04","slug":"a-muddling-of-dark-and-light","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sixburnersue.com\/cooking-fresh-eating-green\/2021\/12\/a-muddling-of-dark-and-light\/","title":{"rendered":"A Muddling of Dark and Light"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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THIS IS A CONFUSING<\/span><\/strong> time of year, don\u2019t you think? It\u2019s really really dark outside most of the time (15 hours here on the Vineyard), your diet suddenly shifts to 90 percent sugar (perhaps a wee exaggeration), and your body wants to sleep or slouch on a couch all day long.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Meanwhile there\u2019s the holly-jolly brigade out there reminding you to be festive! Wear funny hats and jingle bells! March in the Christmas parade (well, maybe that\u2019s just a Vineyard thing\u2026)! Buy your secret Santa a gift! Don\u2019t forget to line up at the post office for two hours to get those presents in the mail! Haven\u2019t bought those presents yet? No problem, just spend a lot of money and stretch your carbon footprint by ordering everything from Amazon and Target and\u00a0Chewy.com! (Not that I would know anything about that.) Bake cookies! Wrap presents! Bake more cookies!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Then there\u2019s Covid. Covid is to Christmas like the Grinch is to Whoville. A very bad mix. It\u2019s already hard enough to figure out the right social protocols during the holidays, but throw Covid in, and well, even the Secret Santa Swap becomes fraught. And just when you thought it was safe to grab a coffee with a friend, the coffee places are all suddenly closed and you wind up sitting outside in the freezing cold six feet apart on a wet bench just to catch up a bit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ugh. I know a lot of people who just want to slip under the covers and stay there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I am one of them. I conveniently forget every year that I am adversely affected by the decrease in daylight. Somewhere in the late fall I start to feel very fatigued, headachey, hungry for carbs, and extremely sluggish. I sense my work productivity going down and my mojo slipping. I inevitably make an appointment with my doctor, who looks at her charts and tells me I came in the same time last year with the same symptoms, and that I\u2019m not sick, I\u2019m depressed. I\u2019m just one of many people who get SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder) this time of year.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Oy. How is it that I can forget this? In fact, I am so thick-headed about this that yesterday I took a Covid test, convinced that I must be sick because I was so tired. (It was negative.) My husband gently reminded me that it is time to get the lightbox out, just like we\u2019ve done every year for the past three years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The buildup to the wedding<\/a> and the cluster of deadlines in November kept me so distracted that the symptoms were pushed off this year. And now that this heavy feeling has arrived like an unwelcome elephant, it feels particularly odd, coming as it does on top of my general contentment with life. But chemistry is a powerful thing \u2013 a decrease in sunlight can cause serotonin levels to drop, especially in people genetically predisposed to SAD. So is it possible to be both happy and (mildly) depressed at the same time? Apparently.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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And that\u2019s okay. Most of us go up and down to some degree many times during the course of a day or a week or even an hour. Not a reason to pummel oneself, though it is good to be aware that it\u2019s possible to take positive action even when you\u2019re feeling blue. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Hence the sparkly fairy lights, twinkling tree lights, glowing candles \u2013 and the fake fireplace flame (sorry, but we haven\u2019t gotten the flue fixed!) in our little house. I went a little crazy decorating with the many strings of battery-operated fairy lights leftover from the wedding. I started with a few and just kept adding more. And more. They\u2019re nestled in plants, draped across the mantle (with my mom\u2019s wooden santas), wrapped around the bannister, looped over windows. I didn\u2019t even realize what I was doing at first, but obviously I craved light.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Technically, they\u2019re no substitute for a lightbox (which has to be used rigorously and in the morning), but they are enchanting and I find them uplifting. I look forward to turning them all on at 3:30 in the afternoon, and before I go to bed at night I sit in the living room quietly with them for a bit; it\u2019s peaceful and calming.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Decorating with lights is just one way of taking care of myself, something I learned to do in sobriety (my 15th<\/sup> anniversary is Christmas Day!). I know I also need to take Vitamin D and Omega 3, plan to do my walks in the daylight, set up that lightbox, and give myself permission for that extra hour of sleep (why not?). A  few chocolate candies won\u2019t hurt either; I can diet in January. (Or maybe February, when we will finally have 10 full hours of daylight on the Vineyard.) I need to ask for a hug when I need it, decline group activities I\u2019m not comfortable with (but say yes to those uplifting one-on-one meet-ups with friends), and snuggle my dog frequently. Whatever it takes. Winter is here, but spring is coming.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Take care of yourself and have a peaceful holiday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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