The whole Black Friday thing scares me. Just the name alone conjures up images of medieval plagues and stock market crashes. The next image that comes to mind is small children being trampled by greedy shoppers storming the gates of Made-In-China Chain Store [insert favorite name here] to procure the latest big screen TV sets for cheap.
A much better idea is Small Business Saturday, where people can support local entrepreneurs and actually return dollars to their own communities. And purchase something truly special.
But since it is still Friday, I’ve decided to rename today Pink and Green Friday. Just because. Yes, pink and green are my favorite colors, but happily, they also represent good causes—supporting breast cancer research and clean energy, for two. So maybe this is a better way to carry over our good feelings from Thanksgiving, to think about generosity and gratitude, instead of greed.
I admit, I am a day late expressing my thanks properly. I had an overwhelming feeling of gratitude all day yesterday, but that didn’t translate over to sitting down at the computer. And today I thought, well, it is good to be reminded of how healing gratitude is on any old day, especially something called Black (I mean Pink and Green) Friday.
So I went out in the garden and took random photos of small things I am grateful for. And decided I’d write a “snapshot” gratitude list. (A wise woman once gave me this idea—writing a gratitude list is an effective mood-switcher if you’re feeling off.) Figure you could do this any day, anywhere, any time of the day. (Yesterday my gratitude was all about chocolate cream pie. And making gravy with Roy…taking walks with Farmer…setting a pretty table…playing Scrabble…eating my own home-grown veggies…a lot of different things.)
In the garden this morning, I was grateful for:
1. The beauty of the silvery, sparkly frost; the promise of changing seasons
2. Our compost pile (it worked!); adding yesterday’s scraps to the new pile
3. The cold frame—and the happy lettuce inside
4. The perky bed of arugula, still thriving under the row cover
5. The fact that I didn’t pull up all the Brussels sprouts, that the cold must finally have gotten the cabbage warms and that maybe we can eat some sprouts now
6. A sunny day to hang the clothes out on the line
7. Roy’s woodstove firing up in the barn
8. Happy chickens, colorful feathers radiant in the low morning light
9. Feeding Cocoa Bunny frosty kale leaves and breaking the thin layer of ice on her water bowl with warm water
10. Volunteer cilantro, flourishing parsley, sturdy rosemary, all still alive for the pickin’
11. Yes, those darn rutabagas—one the size of a football now
12. The view of the fields I never get tired of—especially looking out at the open space where the garden will grow into next year
13. A new garden shed donated by a neighbor; an old wheelbarrow salvaged; all our friends and neighbors who help make the garden possible
14. Leaves for Libby to jump in when she gets here
15. The blueberry bushes we planted for next year
16. That spunky baby bok choy plant that has survived all odds
17. All my little tools bundled up in the handsome trug Roy made
18. Tables set up all around the yard for me (by you know who) to arrange all the contents of the 32 boxes of books I retrieved from storage—cookbook sale tomorrow!
Less stuff, more vegetables. That’s my mantra for Pink and Green Friday.
That’s a good list, a beautiful list, one that makes even me thankful for it and I’m not even there!
I have been packing all day since 8 am this morn and I just sat down for a break. The weather picked up during the day and it is cold and windy here in Ft Worth Texas.
I love your blogs and am very excited when one pops up. I miss my garden and you take me back to good warm fuzzy memories.
I can hardly wait for your new book. We are moving to a retirement place and I have made a pack with myself that the meals that I decide to cook will be from your wonderful suggestions.
I also agree with everything you said today, so here to pink and green !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
beautiful piece…